Well, we checked another item off our Vermont Bucket list. OK, quick digression. I really don’t like the term “bucket list.” Can we come up with something better? Maybe someone … Continue reading Kicking off summer w/ state parks, swimming & sun
Well, we checked another item off our Vermont Bucket list. OK, quick digression. I really don’t like the term “bucket list.” Can we come up with something better? Maybe someone … Continue reading Kicking off summer w/ state parks, swimming & sun
Well, we have hit our 3 month mark of living in Vermont, so I find this to be a good time to evaluate my feelings about the move.
To be honest, it feels like we’ve been here a lot longer than 3 months. Perhaps that’s because we’ve witnessed the change of seasons, in kind of a drastic way. We drove into Vermont during a snowstorm on February 18, and today on May 26 the high will be 73 with sun. And in between then and now, we’ve seen lots of rain. I didn’t know how much rain this area sees before moving here. I’m not complaining, I do like gloomy weather as long as I get to have a sunny day to break it up, but I just wasn’t aware that it is one of the cloudiest places in the country. It ranks just below Washington state. Please don’t let that deter you from visiting, it’s still absolutely beautiful. I am so happy to see green and flowers on the trees and fresh green grass, so I can thank all this rain for that! This time of year, you can see why Vermont is the Green Mountain state.
Also, the warped time perception may have something to do with the multitude of tasks I have checked off my “to do” list. I mean that literally. I love and absolutely require lists to keep myself organized and moving forward. I’m kind of forgetful, so the moment I think of something I need or want to do, I open Google Keep and add it to the corresponding list. That includes administrative tasks that have been necessary for the move and settling in, but I also have a Vermont “bucket” list full of places I want to see and things I want to do. I’m also using Google Maps to mark certain places as “want to go.” And I just downloaded Google Tasks to give it a spin. Yes, I am a bit of a Google fan-girl.

I’m happy to say that my “need to do” list has shrunk considerably. We have officially sold our house in Jacksonville, we got our Vermont ID’s & license plates, we’ve settled into our apartment and scoped out our local amenities. I still haven’t found my regular hair place. I visited a nearby stylist, and during my appointment w/ the owner of the salon I made the mistake of telling him that I didn’t know what I wanted done w/ my hair so I trusted his expertise to give me a good cut w/ no instruction. I thought – he’s the owner, I’m sure he knows what he’s doing, so what could go wrong? I walked out of the salon with considerable length taken off, which doesn’t bother me in the slightest, and LOTS of product in my very zhuzhed up hair, which is definitely not my style.

No big deal, I would wash it all out. But when I stepped out of the shower the next morning, I saw that the cut was uneven and I had just the slightest impression of a lady mullet. Ok, it wasn’t that bad, but I wasn’t particularly happy w/ it. So I’m still on the lookout for my hair person.
I’ve settled into my regular routines now and Andriy and I find plenty of time to continue to explore our surroundings. So this place feels more like home every day. I’m feeling very comfortable. And every day I find something that makes me so happy I live here now.
I’ll share more soon about the fun things we’ve been doing. Next weekend we have plans to go camping at a state park near Waterbury and we just booked a place in Maine to celebrate our summer anniversary on June 15. I LOVE having these awesome things to look forward to. That’s what summer is all about!
Well, I have been a busy little bee during these early weeks of spring in Vermont. Allow me to share a brief rundown on what’s been going on to catch you up.
April 5th-8th – Debbi & Gary visit Vermont

My parents were eager to see how we were living in our new state, so we arranged a visit over the weekend of April 5th. We were still living at our temporary location near the UVM Medical Center at this point, but we had secured the lease and keys to our new apartment in Williston, so it was nice for them to have the opportunity to see both places!
On Friday afternoon, I picked them up from Burlington’s cute little airport (seriously, it’s so petite and SO Vermont.) Andriy was not yet home from work and we had some time to kill, so I gave them a quick tour of the hospital, then we then walked a bit around campus and decided to go have a little drink at The Archives. We took advantage of the free College Street shuttle back to the med center campus, since the wind was pretty brisk. Dinner that night was pizza delivered from Leonardo’s – meat free for the parents since it was still Lent.
On Saturday, we decided to take a bit of a drive into the mountains, to Waitsfield to show them Andriy’s daily commute and the Cabot Headquarters, and then to Stowe and Waterbury. My parents had visited Stowe before, but many years ago, so I thought it would be interesting for them to see how it’s developed. Stowe is a charming ski town, and it has a booming food scene. We drove partway up Mt. Mansfield and marveled at the wall of snow that we found where they stop plowing during the winter season. Afterwards, we stopped at The Alchemist, a cool brewery in Stowe (totally worth a visit,) and then of course a stop at the Cabot store in Waterbury for CHEESE. Dinner that evening was at Shanty on the Shore, fulfilling Dad’s request for a seafood dinner, which had a beautiful view of the lake during sunset.

We decided to check out the Long Island Trail on Sunday, which is a walking/biking path that goes all along the coast of Lake Champlain through Burlington. We walked the trail all the way up to North Beach. There are beautiful views of the Adirondacks across the lake. We made a pub top for some liquid refreshments and some Ben & Jerry’s on Church Street before heading home to chill for the rest of the evening.
It was great having them here for the weekend and I think it was nice for them to see that we’re doing fine here.
April 18th – 22nd – The Final Move
This was the weekend I had been dreading and anticipating for a while. We finally were going to pick up the rest of our things in Illinois, Frodo the cat included and move them to Vermont. We flew back to the Midwest Thursday night, then picked up our Penske rental truck Friday morning and headed to the old house on Randall Court to pack up the rest of our furniture. We were joined by my parents and the Fluhr family (with Frodo!), so we had plenty of help loading up the truck. We made good time of it and even had a few hours to have dinner and relax at Mom and Dad’s.
Early the next morning we set off in the truck with Frodo between us in the front and the remainder of our belongings in the back and we headed back east. Thankfully, we had decent weather ahead of us. Our only issues were the wind, which was pushing the truck around on the road (I feel for you truck drivers!), the potholes that we tried to avoid to keep our cargo intact in the back and our upset kitty cat in the front. Frodo really doesn’t like travelling, even in his spacious, expandable new cat carrier. We brought along some treats which promised to have a calming effect. They didn’t seem to work at first, but after doubling the number of recommended treats, he finally seemed to calm down a bit after a few hours (chubby kitty.) Thankfully, this trip wasn’t as traumatic for all of us as I anticipated. At least, I don’t think it was. Frodo hasn’t learned how to speak English yet, as much as I chide him for it.

We set off the next morning, after a hotel stay at our halfway point, and made it to Williston in the early evening hours, which gave us plenty of time to grab some quick dinner and move in the most important items – the mattress, the TV and Frodo. We knew the next day would hold lots of hard work, moving in the rest of our belongings, so we enjoyed the last few hours relaxing to a movie.


May the 4th (and the time leading up) be with you
So many of my days after work since we moved here have been filled with the administrative tasks that come with moving to a new place. Since I’m off work an hour earlier than Andriy, plus I don’t have to drive as far, we agreed that these would be my responsibilities. These duties so far have included: various account address changes, contacting future and past property managers, working w/ my parents to handle things at our old house in Jacksonville (I truly can’t thank them enough,) researching and arranging vehicle license/registration changes including inspections , communicating w/ our realtor about selling our house, handling activation & transfer of utilities, and more. Moving is such a chore. Needless to say, weekends provide a nice break in these tasks to continue to explore the area and have some fun.
I had noticed on my daily commute to work from our new location that I was travelling through a very interesting looking neighborhood that seemed to have lots to offer. After learning from my co-workers that this area is the South End Arts district of Burlington, I proposed that we spend a Saturday afternoon exploring this district.
First stop was, of course, a brewery. Did you know that Vermont was recently named craft beer capital of the world? And it doesn’t offer just beer – just in the greater Burlington area alone, there are 20-something breweries, cider houses and distilleries. We began at Queen City Brewery for a quick flight & pint, then across the street we visited Zero Gravity for lunch & another pint. Oh, I can’t forget to mention the quick stop in between to Lake Champlain chocolates for some free samples. YUMMM.



We continued our walk down Pine street through the arts district to discover…what else?…art! There are lots of cool shops and little galleries to stop in and, from what I hear, they have an amazing art festival here in fall.


We picked up some fresh coffee beans at a local roaster called Speeder & Earl’s (which came w/ a complimentary cup of coffee) and then ended our walk down Pine Street at Citizen Cider. If you are less of a beer person, or even if you thought you were mainly a beer person, you might enjoy the many offerings made by Citizen Cider. I had never before experienced the complexities of flavor and aroma that cider can provide before this visit. So refreshing! So unexpected!
Our settling in and exploration period in Vermont continues. To be honest, I’m not sure the exploration will ever end here. There’s so much to see and do! And every season brings new activities. Spring has arrived, but that hasn’t stopped us from fitting in more skiing. Partly because we still had snow on the ground a week ago! But now things are finally starting to warm up, and I’m ready to see some green things coming from the ground and trees. Here’s how we have passed our time recently:
Historically, St. Patrick’s Day weekend is one of the only times of the year we have actually gone out to the bar for a few drinks. So this year, we decided to walk down to Church Street to do some exploring and find some tasty things to eat and drink.

Church Street in Burlington is a fantastic and historic pedestrian road located downtown. It’s four blocks which are closed to traffic, lined on both sides with lots of shops and great places for food and drink. If it’s a holiday, you’re pretty much guaranteed to find something happening on Church Street.
We wanted to find some place to enjoy a full Irish breakfast, so we stopped at Rí Rá Irish pub, which promised this on their menu. It did not disappoint. We enjoyed a couple of local beers w/ our breakfast (don’t judge, it was actually lunchtime) and enjoyed the lively atmosphere, which was accentuated by the small crowd that had gathered to watch the rugby tournament on TV.

After lunch, we walked down to the lakefront, and stopped in Foam Brewers for another pint. The place was packed, so we took our beers outside to drink in the courtyard. It was chilly, but that didn’t seem to bother us much. I think our bodies are adapting to cooler weather!


Our last stop downtown was to meet up with a new local friend, Courtney. I’m jokingly calling her a “hand-me-down” friend because before we knew her, she was a schoolmate and friend of our good friend, Jeremy. He connected us once we moved here, and I’m glad he did! We met Courtney for a couple of drinks at a great bar called The Archives. Besides being a comfortable bar, it’s also a vintage game arcade. And the soundtrack playing was great music from the 80’s. What’s not to love? Next time, I’m totally tackling Ms. Pac-Man.

The next weekend we decided to travel a bit to visit another ski resort, this time at Burke Mountain in the Northeast Kingdom. This was about a 2 hour drive away for us, and just after a substantial snowfall. Thankfully, the roads were clear and it promised to be a warm sunny day. After attempting to dodge the multitude of ridiculously large potholes along the route, we made it safe and sound and found the Nordic skiing area pretty much empty. So, we enjoyed the sunny day on the trails, pretty much all to ourselves! The snow was wet and “sticky” but we still had a great time and got a good workout in!



Our après-ski activity had us heading to Happy Hill Maple Farms to get a tour and taste some samples. We were greeted by a very friendly and knowledgeable young man who gave us a comprehensive tour, and afterward we tasted some maple cream (incredible), lavender infused maple syrup (very floral, not for me), and maple cotton candy (YES.) Satisfied and exhausted, we headed home.
I really love people watching. I don’t mind being by myself and it gives me the opportunity to watch, or at least listen to, the things happening around me and take mental note. It’s not really something I always do consciously. I think I just inherently find it interesting to observe the quirks, idiosyncrasies and mannerisms that make people so unique. I feel like I get this trait from both my parents. My mom is naturally a very observant person and my dad has an affinity for odd and unusual things and people.
So, as it would be, I’ve taken to noting the unique aspects that I’m starting to attribute to the new state I now inhabit and the people who live here. Please note, I have only been here a few weeks, and I currently live in the “big city” of Burlington and at a very large and busy hospital, so some of these observations may be misguided due to my current surroundings and short time here. But it will be interesting to compare later on to see if I feel that my first impressions still ring true.
Well, we did it! We’ve talked and dreamed and schemed about it for so long, and after 5 or so years, we finally moved to Vermont on February 18. That means we’ve been here for about 3 weeks now. Let me fill you in on what’s happened since then.
We arrived in Burlington on February 18, after two long days of driving our two vehicles, packed w/ our basic necessities. Our temporary abode is a 3 BR 1 BA house, provided by the University of Vermont Medical Center, my new employer. The house is literally right next to the hospital. For now, my daily commute is a 5 minute walk – nothing wrong with that! The house is fully furnished, which means we were able to leave our furniture back home in our house on Randall Court. (It’s currently up for sale for a very reasonable price – tell your friends and family! 2 Randall Court ) Unfortunately, it also means we had to leave Frodo behind temporarily, so he’s staying with the Fluhrs for now. We’ll head back to Jacksonville over Easter weekend for a quick pickup of cat and furniture.

For now, we’ve settled in well at our temporary digs. Andriy and I both started our new jobs on February 25. I’m an inventory controller in the central sterile department at UVMMC. Basically that means I make sure all surgical supplies are stocked and that our inventory levels are appropriate. It’s very focused work that demands constant surveillance, so that means my days go quickly. I like it so far – plus I get to wear scrubs, which is basically like wearing pajamas at work.
Andriy is working in accounts receivable for Cabot Creamery in Waitsfield, Vermont. If you have never tried Cabot cheese before, I highly recommend you pick up a block of Cabot Extra Sharp or Seriously Sharp Cheddar the next time you are at the grocery store. It’s so good.https://www.cabotcheese.coop/
There is a lot to do here, even in the winter, so we’ve taken full advantage of that since we’ve arrived.
Week 1: Familiarize ourselves with our surroundings.
We both had a week before we started work, so we used that time to find out important and useful places nearby. Places visited in our first week included the nearby post office, grocery store, pharmacy, car wash, department stores. We also started the search for a more permanent living space. We decided to rent our first year or two, so we visited a handful of apartments before finding one in a good location that we both agreed on.
We also had the opportunity to go cross country skiing for the first time. We learned about a free ski rental day at nearby Bolton Valley Resort, and decided to check it out. It was awesome!


Week 2: Get to work
We both began work on February 25, so that meant the start of new routines. My work day begins at 7:00, and Andriy has a 30-40 minute commute, so that means we’re up early. The first week means lots of orientation items and learning how to do our jobs, so it’s exhausting and kind of scary, but necessary.
This also was when the 2nd stage of culture shock started to hit me. My honeymoon phase was over and I was beginning to experience homesickness and frustration. Thankfully, my time in Peace Corps prepared me for this, so I knew it was a normal step in adjusting to a new place. Getting into a regular routine is essential to adjustment, so having a regular work, sleep, eat and relaxation schedule helps.
We also signed a lease for our new apartment in Williston, just outside of Burlington. We will be able to move in April 1. It’s in a very nice area with modern amenities. More photos of this to come!
Week 3: Setting the routine and exploring!
Thus began our second week of work. We were settling into our new routine, giving us a sense of normalcy. This is essential to moving onto the third phase of culture shock, which is adjustment.
I felt the desire to get out and see more, so my plan was to stay busy and go see and do some very “Vermonty” things.
Andriy came home with 2 free tickets to the University of Vermont men’s basketball game vs UMass Lowell, so we went and cheered on our local top-ranked college team – Go Catamounts!

One of the Vermonty things on my list is to visit a sugar house to watch maple syrup being made. We visited nearby Palmer’s Sugar House yesterday to watch how it’s done and to try “sugar on snow.” This is basically snow (or shaved ice) with maple syrup poured over it. They served it in the traditional Vermont way, with a donut and a pickle. Weird, I know. We learned that the sap isn’t flowing yet due to cold temps, so we’ll plan a visit to another sugar house sometime in the next couple of weeks.
We ended our evening w/ an amazing meal at Guild Tavern. This farm-to-table restaurant specializes in wood grilled steaks and burgers. I ate the best shrimp I’ve ever had. It was pricey, but worth every cent. Highly recommended.
I’ll share more of my Vermont experiences as they happen. Check back later for more adventures!
Also, I had a goal to write more. In my head, I was thinking I would write a little every day. That hasn’t happened. I don’t think it’s very realistic, with the way my day is structured right now. So I’ve decided that I’m still going to write more, just not every day.
So, these self-created goals, the thing they have in common is they won’t really harm or benefit anyone other than myself. So I only have myself to answer to if I fail or succeed.
And what I need to do, is not worry about it. I need to take it easy on myself…of course it’s good to make goals and stick with them, but it isn’t healthy to get upset with myself if I don’t totally succeed the way I think I should.
The only thing I can do is make the most of my time and effort right now, and if i feel the need to work my ass off, I will. And that will probably be satisfying.
But if I feel the need to treat myself, that will be pretty great too.
I heard somewhere that in order to make something a habit, you should do it consistently for two straight weeks and then your mind and body will become accustomed to it and continuing the practice will be easy. I have found that to be mostly true so far, so I’m giving it a go.
So, don’t expect anything spectacular out of it, but I am going to write a little something every day for the next couple of weeks to see if it sticks (I’m telling myself this mostly because I don’t think anyone actually reads this.) As I said multiple times this past weekend (mostly about drinking water while drinking booze,): I won’t regret doing this, but I might regret not doing it.
So, here’s what’s going on right now.
Andriy’s at class, his last on location class of the semester (woohoo!) so I’m home alone. Well, with Frodo.
I’m waiting for dinner to cook, drinking a glass of wine (whatever we had open) and listening to music. I got this idea from Chris Hardwick where he makes a playlist for every year of his life. So, while he’s, say, 42, if there is a song that catches his ear or that he’s really digging at that time, he adds it to his “42” playlist. Right now I’m listening to and adding to my 35 playlist. Recent additions:
“Prisencolinensinainciusol” Adriano Celentano (what does that even mean? no idea, but the song’s a jam.)
“Oogum Boogum Song” Brenton Wood (also such a jam)
“Pure Comedy” Father John Misty (which feeds my soul. It makes me sad and really pleased at the same time. like someone really gets how fucked up it is right now and I’m glad they do)
“Waiting Room” by Fugazi (I totally forgot about Fugazi until recently I found a mixed tape that a boy had made with that song on it and I was like OH YEAH)
“Them Changes” Thundercat (this is the most recent addition to my 35 playlist, it is thanks to All Songs Considered and good luck not doing that shoulder move when you hear it)
BTW, what are your thoughts on Chris Hardwick? I guess lots of people think he’s a total tool, which I kind of get. But I think I really like him. Even when he tries to psychoanalyze everyone on his podcast, I still forgive him. He means well.
Well, this was fun. I’m going to eat dinner and watch something with David Tennant in it.
I’ll end this with a photo of me right now.
Looking back, I think my 2015 was pretty alright. Actually, no, I can say it was a good year. Nothing terrible happened, no big changes in my life and mostly good things were going on around me. The only weird/bad thing that first comes to mind is Andriy’s sudden necessary gall bladder surgery, which meant a night’s stay in the hospital and bills bills bills. But we survived that with just some tummy scars (him, not me.)
Other than that, I did mostly what i wanted to do without too much interruption, aside from, you know, having to work for a living.
Here are a few things I LOVED about 2015:
Travel is almost always at the top of my list. This year, I traveled to the East Coast twice. First was to visit Maine and Vermont with my husband, ending with a visit to our best friend Jdo in Ohio. Maine was AMAZING, especially where we were, which was Bar Harbour/Acadia National Park. It’s SUCH a beautiful place. Here’s a photo, just to brag/reminisce.
Yeah, it was so good. Go there.
Then we spent a week in Vermont, because it is our plan to move there in 2017. We have set a year. Now we just need to figure out how the HELL you move to a brand new place where you don’t know anyone or have a job. So, we’re going to figure that out. But we’re going to do it. We love Vermont so much. We spent a week there, exploring different areas, scoping out the neighborhoods in Burlington, checking out job availability. I even spoke with someone at the New England Culinary Institute about their programs. I’m not saying that’s what I’m going to do, but it kind of sounds like something I might really enjoy. We’ll see.
After hiking/driving/eating our way around Vermont, we headed home, but not before stopping and visiting Jeremy Doughty in Bowling Green Ohio. I’m so glad we got to see where he’s been spending his time recently, earning his doctorate (way to go, Dr. Doughty!)
I also took the opportunity to visit my sister, Jessica, in Maryland. Mom and Dad were going and asked if i wanted to join them. I thought about it for a half a second and then said YES of course! Jessi and her family moved there in December of 2014 and I hadn’t seen much of them since then. So, we had a lovely visit with them, spending a lot of time with her and her sweet, beautiful daughters. We did a little hiking, a little exploring. I was so happy to see their nice place and that they live somewhere that’s actually really pretty. Now I want to bring Andriy back so we can explore more.
More things I loved:
After hurting my back doing something boring and normal (didn’t love that,) I started doing yoga very regularly again. Since I’m cheap and impatient, I decided to explore the options on YouTube. I found Yoga with Adriene. And it is great. Adriene is so laid back and kind of silly, not so super serious like some yoga instructors I’ve encountered that take themselves and their practice waayy too seriously. So, she fit right into my life. I’ve been practicing yoga from home since early last year. Check out her channel on YouTube if you’re interested in adding some yoga to your life.
I tend to not talk about work much, but my business did relocate to a new, much better location. The move was a lot of work, and I had to miss a family reunion because of it, but it’s done. And I had the opportunity to have the layout exactly as i want it/need it. To get the updates on what’s happening there, like us on the Facebook page that I manage: https://www.facebook.com/ProductionXpress/
Andriy and I have taken a new fun step into nerddom. We started watching Doctor Who and we LOVE it. It’s got the right mix of playfulness, dorkiness and Britishness. I find it very comforting to immerse myself in the world of Doctor Who. I find that as time goes on, we find ourselves watching more and more British TV…we’re a couple of angliophiles over here. Thanks Netflix & Hulu!
Wrapping this one up for now. More soon…